I’m going to make a pretty radical statement…. And say, that when you have low self worth, there is no area of your life that is as good as it could be.

It’s simple… when you have low self worth, you settle for less.

Less in your business, your relationships, your health…. And then you have less pleasure, less joy and fulfilment, less abundance and actually less peace in your heart.

Your mind is not settled because it knows you are worth more, even though you may be unconscious of this.  

This feeling of not being worthy has often been with you such a long time that it has become your normal. You settle into feeling unworthy and sometimes you don’t even recognise that!

You were not born that way though…..   as a baby you knew that you are worthy.  It’s the things that happened to you afterwards that started to diminish that sense of self worth and self belief.  Maybe you also learned not to trust yourself and your decisions and even, not to love yourself.  

That’s when the self abusive thoughts started too and you began to develop a harsh Inner Critic.

Years ago, when things were not going well in my marriage, I spoke to my Mum about it – about how unhappy I was and I even said that I don’t think I deserved to be treated the way I was being treated.

Her response was “oh well, you made your bed, and now you’ve got to lie in it” 

Not helpful.

When I told my Dad (years later!) that I was going to divorce my husband (now ex obviously!) because he was having yet another affair, he told me to “be nice to him so I could win him back”.

Equally unhelpful.

But I believed that I was worth more and so settling for that kind of behaviour and lack of respect within my marriage was just not possible for me anymore.  I’d already done it for a long time and now I was at the point of “enough’s enough”.  

Sure…. it took me a while to build up the courage and self worth to get to that point, but I did it.

I voted for me and I stood by me when nobody else had my back. I was alone as I went through that and it was freaking scary.

But through that process I developed a really strong sense of self worth and self value.  I know I’m worth more…. And so are you!

I realise that admitting that you have a low sense of self worth is not easy.

Nobody wants to do that, because we feel ashamed.  

It’s embarrassing…

We KNOW we should feel more worthy than we do and we kind of feel like a failure if we don’t.  Especially when we look at other women who seem to have what we don’t.  We can feel really small when we compare ourselves to them.

We judge ourselves and we criticise ourselves and depending on whether we’re having a good day or a bad day will depend on the level of cruel words we say to ourselves.

At these times, we can often hear echoes of things that have been said to us in the past too…. By our parents, or our siblings or even our ex husbands and lovers!!

Honestly, it can take a bit to overcome all of that and to find ourselves – to develop a strong sense of self worth… and self love.  

But it’s so worth it….!

If you know me, you will know that everything I teach has been learned through a direct personal experience.  

I teach the exact processes that I worked through myself, to overcome my limitations and to empower myself so that I can live a life of joy, fulfillment and abundance, and that’s why I have no hesitation whatsoever in saying….. that if you are struggling with low self worth and not getting the results you want in business, health or relationships… or life in general then you should seriously consider joining me in my course called Worthy and Wealthy Woman.

It is a six week course, but I give you access to 12 weeks of support from me within my Mastermind.  

The ladies in my Mastermind are amazing and we’ll all be working through this together to improve and upgrade our sense of self worth because feeling worthy is pivotal in every aspect of our life.

Make no mistake… this is life changing work!

Initially you might not see how low self worth literally cripples you in every aspect of life, but by the end of this programme you will be in no doubt that everything that hasn’t worked out well in your life is because you didn’t value yourself enough.  

Once you have embodied this understanding though, nothing will be the same again.  You WILL become unstoppable….

Why?   

Because you know you’re worth it and you settle for nothing less!

If you’d like to know more about what this course covers then DM me and let’s talk about how this could help you.

Or you can check out some of the details here:  https://karenturpin.kartra.com/page/3monthMastermindOption