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You try to buy yourself some extra time and keep moving the date at which you’ll make this change. Or you hope things will just get better all on their own, or that the other person in the relationship will make the decision and save you from having to say anything… until suddenly 2, or 5, or even 10 years have passed and you’re still stuck. You haven’t followed your heart. You’re not living in joy. You’re just treading water waiting for something to happen to make it all better. But usually it’s just getting worse.

We’ve all been programmed to be a certain way. We think that it’s “just the way we are”, but really, the way we are, the way we behave, think, act and feel is a reaction to past events and past programming. When you introduce a small child to new people and preface that introduction with something like “she’s very shy, she doesn’t talk much” – you are subtly programming that child to become the way you say she is.

Just last week, I said that your thoughts create your reality – and they do…. but this week I’m going to go a step further and say that in order to manifest the reality that you really want, you actually have to do something about it.

When we focus just outside of ourselves we can tend to forget about the power that is within us – our own magnificence, in a sense – and actually some people don’t even know that this part of them even exists…   they don’t teach us this in schools.  But actually if they did, we would see a very different world today.