The first time I paid “a lot” of money to do a live training I was really disappointed to find that there were 90 people in the room when I was told there would be 20.

The first time I did an online group coaching (which I also paid a lot of money for) I was also disappointed to find that there were 968 people in the group. Yes, 968!

The only time I got to talk to the coach I’d signed up to work with, was on a group coaching call when he dismissed my question.

I had no idea at that time, that you could sign up with a coach and (beyond being dismissed) have no contact with him whatsoever for the whole duration of the programme. I thought if you signed up with a coach, you got them to coach and mentor you!

I saw what happened to other people in these groups too.

I wasn’t the only one feeling disappointed (and invisible), and I felt sad watching them go through their processes — sometimes it even brought up trauma for them, and there was no support for that so they were left on their own to handle it as best they could.

I learned a lot from being in these two different trainings and observing what was going on.

Most importantly, I saw exactly what I would NEVER do in my own coaching programmes.

I didn’t expect to get these lessons but they were perfect! There really are no mistakes when it comes to things like this.

When I looked for my next coach I asked a lot more questions:

I asked about proximity — because I expect her to show up and actually coach and mentor me;

(I told her that even though I know that “all the answers are within me” I don’t want to be left hanging trying to work it all out on my own…. I wanted her guidance and her expertise… and she agreed with me!).

I asked how long it would take for her to respond to my questions;

I asked about the size of the group;

The number of calls we would have;

Her expectations of me (as a client);

How we would handle things that I might feel were too personal to share in the programme’s Facebook group;

I had so many questions for her and she answered all of them patiently and I knew that she was going to be my next coach.

She didn’t try the hard sell and she didn’t use sales psychology on me to try to talk me around like so many people do on sales calls. Urgghhh….

I chose to work with her because she so closely matches the way I do things and what I offer in my Mastermind and other programmes that I offer too.

It’s important to ask these questions and I encourage you to ask anyone that you’re considering working with some similar questions and make sure you get all the information that you need to make a decision that is right for you.

When you sign up to work with me, you get me and you get my 25+ years of experience as a psychospiritual coach.

I have embodied experience in all aspects of spirituality, meditation, healing, and the psychic arts as well as understanding how your mind works and how to shift subconscious programmes, blocks and limiting beliefs.

As well, I understand the importance of inner child healing and shadow work and I believe that I’ve got you covered in whatever it is that’s coming up for you.

You’ll get me as a coach, a mentor and an energy healer and I know that I have an ability to shift energy just by talking with you, so I’m sure of the results we’re going to get.

And providing that you do your part of the work too, I can guarantee the transformation that you’ll get — because I’ve seen it so many times before with other clients. (I have a bit of a track record when it comes to empowerment and transformation).

What’s rare sometimes in the coaching industry, is that: I actually CARE about my clients and the results they get.

I want you to feel that working with me is like having a trusted supporter and cheerleader who really gives a sh*t about you reaching your next level.

If you’re ready to breakthrough whatever it is that’s holding you back from;

upgrading your business and your relationship with money,

your confidence to become the woman you want to become and create a change in the world,

or finding and embodying your soul purpose and want a coach that offers close proximity with personal support (even inside a group space) then message me the word PROXIMITY and let’s talk.